Jim launches The Respect Project

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Brunswick, Maine – 2/24/2014

Rather than going the often slow and sometimes discouraging route to fund and publish books, authors are now turning to “crowdsourcing.” One Maine author is using this method to launch his next book and other components of what he’s calling, “The Respect Project.”

Jim Bouchard saw a need he’s trying to fill with his fourth book. The Respect Project is a response to the growing problem of disrespect and incivility in our society,” said Bouchard, “a problem that is costing American business billions of dollars and even more importantly, a problem that is costing lives.”

Bouchard is a nationally renowned speaker, author who appears frequently on radio and television. He’s best known as the author of THINK Like a BLACK BELT.

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Disrespect killing people?

Bouchard points to the increased level of incivility and bullying, particularly in social media, that is blamed for violence and suicide across the country.

“The debate as to whether there is fault, whether a cyber-bully is responsible for a suicide is still hot,” Bouchard adds, “but the reality that bullying is a contributing factor is indisputable.”

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The Respect Project consists of three major phases: a book, training programs and a media campaign.

Why did Bouchard decide to use crowdfunding instead of going the traditional route?

“Crowdfunding is an exciting new way to support a project that gives us a lot more latitude and helps us get the project moving much faster,” said Bouchard. “The best part is that a lot of caring people can get involved, and they get some terrific bonuses for helping our effort.”

RocketHub LogoHosted on RocketHub, one of the most reputable crowdfunding platforms, contributors receive “goods” in return for their donations. Everyone who participates will receive a copy of The Respect Project book signed by the author for as little as $35. Higher level contributors receive a half or full day Respect Project training session onsite at their location.

The Respect Project is not a “non-profit” enterprise and contributions are not tax deductible. However, Bouchard adds, “Once the project reaches it’s goal, twenty percent of all future profits will be contributed to organizations that research and promote the values of respect and civility in business and in our society.”

CLICK HERE for The Respect Project Page on RocketHub.

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For more information or to schedule an interview, please contact Alex Armstrong at 800-786-8502 or by email: Alex@JimBouchard.org.

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Here are some recent articles by Jim on the topic of Respect and Civility…

 

Can’t we all just get along? Find out on BrandTalk Radio!

THU, October 24th on BrandTalk Radio…

Cant’ we all just get along?

In this era of hyper-sensitivity versus political correctness and incivility run amok on social media…is there any way we can discuss politics and other contentious issues without being abusive and petulant?

What effect do these rants have on your business? On your brand?

Well, maybe there’s hope! Tune in at 5:00 and let’s talk about it…without calling names!

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Can you talk politics in the office…without killing each other?

By Jim Bouchard

In martial arts we have a tradition of bowing to our opponent before we engage in combat. This bow is a genuine display of respect before we try to drive the other guy into the mat.

That might not be a bad ritual to introduce when two people are about to talk about politics.

We also bow after the match…and then we shake hands, grateful for the opportunity to test our skills against such a worthy opponent.

I don’t think most people are going to bow before they start a political rant at the office or before posting a snarky partisan comment on Facebook.

In the spirit of trying to preserve some measure of respect and civility with those who do not share your political perspective, here is some advice for conducting respectful conversations about politics at work, home, or anywhere else for that matter.

By the way- to my friends with differing political opinions. Please don’t mistake my refusal to engage in petulant streams of debate…

“Never mistake my kindness for weakness, nor my silence for ignorance.”

So- how do you express respect for someone who, in your opinion, is absolutely wrong? How do you respectfully defend or express your feelings on an issue in the face of anger, intolerance and even ignorance?

As part of my THINK Like a BLACK BELT for Respect & Civility in the Workplace program I do a session that focuses specifically on how to debate even political issues with respect. An old saying goes, “When you assume you only make an “ass” out of “u” and “me.” In reality, you do need to embrace 5 basic “AssUmptions (TM)” if you have any hope of debating a hot button issue respectfully and avoid making an ass out of yourself in the office!

#1: Assume that not everyone shares your point of view. It doesn’t matter if you’re right or wrong- you can assume not everyone will agree.

#2: Assume the other guy is entitled to his opinion- because he is!

#3: Assume that the other person has a rational reason for his opinion- whether he does or not! Until you fully engage in the debate you won’t know the rationale of the other person. If you don’t make this Ass-Umption, you’ll never know.

#4: Silence does not always confirm agreement. Don’t assume that because someone is staying quiet that they agree with you. It’s safer to assume that their mind is not made up. The other guy may think you’re a complete ass and is just too polite to tell you so!

#5: Assume that everyone IS entitled to two things: Their thoughts and their feelings. Thoughts and feelings are personal property whether you agree with those thoughts and feelings or not.

It’s difficult if not impossible to control emotions. Emotions are simply a physiological response to physical and psychological stimuli. What we can do is learn to control our response to those emotions. Self-control is a valuable tool for effective communication and respectful debate.

In right versus wrong issues it’s fairly simple, if not always easy to simply step up and present the facts. In most cases, a clear statement of reason will win the argument. When both sides have a legitimate claim to the right side of an argument, it’s extremely important to understand the oppositional perspective whether you agree or not.

Our most contentious issues are right versus right. 

I’m all for open, passionate and even heated debate. We can express ourselves passionately without denigrating our opponent, using inflammatory language and insulting labels. To do so requires a high level of respect, self-control and strength. It requires strength, confidence and courage to acknowledge the right of another person to his or her opinion- even when they’re wrong and you’re right!

It seems like a long time since I made this short video on how to conduct respectful conversations in the office. I’ve become a bit more erasable since this was done, but you may still find this useful!

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And you can download this PDF poster for your office bulletin board: The 5 AssUmptions!

If you’d like to host our THINK Like a BLACK BELT for Respect & Civility in the Workplace program at your business, college or university call 800-786-8502 for booking information.

 

Marketing Your Mastery: Promote your brand and your business with expert positioning

THU, October 19th on BrandTalk Radio…

Blowing your own horn in a noisy world and making sure you’re heard above the din…BLACK BELT MINDSET for Business on BrandTalk! 5:30 PM ET!

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Jim Live Embossed 330w JPGFirst of all, if you’re going to talk the talk, you’d better walk the walk…and you better have a walk you can talk about.

Mastery is not about being the best. It’s about being better…always.

The true Master is always a work in progress. Why anyone would want to stop learning, growing and adapting to new opportunities is beyond me. If you don’t want to learn, grow and develop…

…get away from me. You’re lazy, complacent and apathetic- and you’re probably contagious.

Assuming you are motivated and engaged in the process of continual personal and professional development…how do you apply that to your business or career?

And how do you stand out from the crowd?

Well- that’s why I emphasize authentic Mastery before I talk about how to market it. Before you start blowing your horn, be damn sure you have something genuine to blow about.

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Be a consummate expert in your field- I don’t care if that’s running a Fortune 500 company or cutting lawns. Anyone with relatively the same education, training or experience can do what you’re doing.

The best in any position are the Masters. The distinguishing characteristic of the Master is Wisdom…

Wisdom is the combination of knowledge, experience and- awareness. Wisdom is never a static quantity; it’s an evolving and expanding state of being.

It means you care about what you do and you always want to learn more and do it better.

THAT’s how you’re going to stand out in the crowd.

The mechanics of marketing yourself have never been easier. The internet alone provides unrestricted access to a global audience…even if nobody has ever heard of you and even if you’re budget is whatever you can borrow to get by this week.

However- the internet is crowded territory too. There are no more wide open frontiers with just a few people standing out in a vast, open space.

If you want to stand out you must first distinguish yourself as an expert in your field…then use every means at your disposal to share your expertise with the market.

This takes Discipline, Focus and Perseverance…

Overnight success is rare. Scratch someone considered an overnight success and you’re likely to find a hide toughened by constant and persistent effort. The overnight part is usually just the moment the market seems to recognize that effort.

You must feel confident in what you’re going to shout about. Once you’re confident that you can stand among the best hearts and minds in your area of expertise, then you’re ready to start blowing your horn.

Jim Bouchard
Speaker and Author of THINK Like a BLACK BELT

Learn exactly how to differentiate yourself from the competition…and how to make sure people know about it!

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Jim Quoted in Larry Winget’s Latest Bestseller!

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Jim’s stand on civility and respect earned him a place in Larry Winget’s latest book, Grow A Pair: How to Stop Being a Victim and Take Back Your Life, Your Business, and Your Sanity.

Constantly speaking out on the growing issue of disrespect and mindless violence in our society, Jim responded to a comment Larry posted on a Facebook thread. The story centered on coach tripping a 13 year old player following a youth hockey game.

From Grow a Pair:

“Recently a hockey coach for a group of kids tripped a thirteen-year-old during the handshaking the kids do at the end of the game. The coach stuck his foot out and tripped the kid and the kid fell and broke his wrist. I found his actions so dispicable that I just could not be quiet about it. Like thousands of others, I posted the video on Facebook and did my best to let people know what a deplorable human being I found this guy to be. I got a lot of support for my posting as so many people found this horrible conduct unacceptable. Jim Bouchard, the author of Think Like a Black Belt, posted this comment:

“‘The proper response to incivility is not passivity or tolerance. This is why sharing this type of behavior is important. It’s important that we don’t escalate the incivility, but rather respond with demands for swift, firm and decisive action. Only when we’re willing to take this type of action consistently- and be willing to stand firm when challenged- will we start to reverse this incredibly disgusting trend in our society.’”

Previous to Grow a Pair, Winget is the author of 5 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers including Shut Up, Stop Whining and Get a Life and They Call It Work for a Reason. Known internationally as “The Pitbull of Personal Development,” Larry is one of the world’s most in demand speakers and a fixture on radio and television. He is the star of A&E’s reality series, Big Spender.

Jim continues his stand on civility and respect in America in his upcoming book, Knock it Off! scheduled for release in spring, 2014.

Click here to order Grow a Pair in hardcover, softcover or Kindle editions!

 

For information on how to book Jim for your next meeting or event, call Alex Armstrong at Black Belt Mindset Productions…800-786-8502

 

Why Miley Cyrus is Important to YOUR Business…BLACK BELT MINDSET for Business on BrandTalk!

THU, September 5th on BrandTalk Radio…

Why Miley Cyrus is Important to YOUR Business…BLACK BELT MINDSET for Business on BrandTalk! 5:30 PM ET!

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Now that we’ve been twerked to death, let’s talk about why all the ballyhoo about Miley Cyrus and her undulating hindquarters is important to you…

…specifically why this is important to your business.

Unless you’re delusional you know that the entertainment business is, above all, a business. What Miley did was a calculated, programmed and rehearsed promotional event.

And it was successful- if her intention and that of her marketing people was to increase exposure (so to speak) and traffic on social media platforms.

Bullseye.

Now, what are the long-term ramifications? That remains to be seen.

She’s certainly alienated a huge segment of her audience that identified with her Hannah Montana persona. This move is intentional and calculated.

Has she alienated her core audience? Maybe- but it’s equally apparent that a large percentage of her Hannah Montana core has grown up and is rebelling in the same areas Miley exploits. In other words, these kids, maybe some of your kids, are all grown up and they’re twerking too.

The bigger question is whether her moves were bold or boring…

Have we shocked ourselves out of being shocked? Instead of being knocked off their chairs, most pundits are calling Miley a Madonna/Gaga knock-off.

We have reached the point where we’ve just about seen it all.

So what’s that got to do with your business?

It’s very tempting to jump on these cultural trends. Companies try to exploit these fads in an attempt to be hip, hot, cool, flash…whatever the current version.

Coupons.com just used an image of a young kid in a “gangsta” style pose wearing a black hoodie and dark glasses for their “From Hood to Toe” back to school campaign.

Really? In the wake of Travon Martin?

Mountain Dew tried to place their stake in hip hop culture. From Businessweek.com:

“In two recent scandals involving its hip-hop spokespeople, Mountain Dew pulled a violent, misogynistic commercial directed and starred in by artist Tyler, the Creator, and then broke ties with rapper Lil Wayne. The latter had managed to offend both women and the Civil Rights community with a new remix of a song that included a reference to beating up a woman ‘like Emmett Till,’ the 14-year-old African-American boy who was murdered by white men in Mississippi in 1955.”

There is always an inherent risk in mixing entertainment and business outside of the entertainment business.

Quoted in BusinessWeek.com, Con Williamson of Saatchi & Saatchi adds…

“The mistake people make is when they think no one else but their targeted group will see it…It doesn’t work that way. You can create the most obscure ad and put it online somewhere and then wake up the next morning and Good Morning America is talking about it.”

And therein lies the rub…or the grind, so to speak.

We’re talking about the Black Belt Mindset principle of Respect…

Respect your audience, your core values and your target market. If you want to create a lasting, substantive impression in the market, you must be authentic.

Shock is seldom authentic. People are only shocked when you deviate from your authenticity.

You want to be courageous in differentiating yourself in the market.  You don’t have to be offensive to be bold.

Be absolutely true to your core. Respect your brand and respect your market…

…that’s a bold statement.

Jim Bouchard
Speaker and Author of THINK Like a BLACK BELT

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